I am unworthy.
And if you’re a man, you probably are too. That’s the sentiment expressed by some — though not all — dominant women with regard to sexual intercourse. As a submissive man, I understand where these women are coming from. They simply do not believe men are deserving of having sex with women. Worship them? Yes. Serve them? Yes. Obey them? Absolutely! Put our penises in their vaginas? No. Never. Not happening. I first started reading about “pussy free relationships” on Reddit where women weigh in on their decisions to forgo any piV sexual activity. It isn’t to say these women do not desire the company of suitably submissive and worshipful men, they’re just of the opinion that any sexual interaction will be primarily cunnilingus and always on their terms. And who are men to argue? Think about it for a moment: you’re a man in a loving F/m relationship with a woman and you know that you’ll never be permitted to consummate your relationship. You’ll undoubtedly have some sort of sexual relief but it won’t be like that of most men. Can you live with it? Can you bear to know that nothing more than your tongue will ever penetrate the pulchritudinous folds of her femininity? For many of us, the answer is a resounding yes! Our focus, our objective as men is to serve and please women. And that means sex is always on their terms. Traditional intercourse, though lovely and amazing, isn’t a must-have for male subs. Knowing that we’re focused on her pleasure and arousal above anything else is truly what the gift of male obedience is all about: serving and submitting to the will of a dominant woman.
This is a topic that speaks to me on a variety of levels. I remain chaste and believe (submissive) men benefit from a lack of release. I’m not alone. I imagine other men are just as comfortable adhering to a chastity regimen whether enforced by a woman with the use of a lock or, like me, without being prompted. Recently the visionary Gynarchist, Ms. Viola Strepsata Voltairine, wrote a thoughtful treatise on Medium.com about the benefits of “Gatekeeper Pussy” — whereas women restrict all penal access to their vaginas. She makes a strong argument, from the perspective of an outspoken dominant woman, as to why men should not be given pussy privileges: “…the majority of straight men do not deserve sex with women, and allowing them to grow up from puberty on thinking that sex with women is inevitable for them has made them much worse people.” She goes on to say men have a place in society with women, but are never their equal nor should they enjoy the same rights as women. Males, she believes, should be locked in chastity devices and serve at the whim and pleasure of their female superiors. “Imagine a world where women have full control over all aspects of reproduction and where there are no unwanted pregnancies. Imagine a world where men do not feel entitled to our bodies, where they see sex with women as the privilege that it is.”
Ms. Viola Strepsata Voltairine’s Medium.com article.
