A traditionalist I am not.
I have never been your “standard issue” submissive male — far from it. Offering obedience, service and submission to women isn’t kink — it is a lifestyle I proudly pursue and promote. I am a gynarchist. I support and advocate feminine leadership, and as a sincere and secure submissive male, offer universal respect and deference to all women: this is who I am; this is how I am wired. I am unconventional with regards to gender roles: I have never accepted that relationships should be patriarchally oriented — in fact, just the opposite. Women are best suited to be the head of household in heterosexual relationships with fully accepting, evolved and enlighten submissive men in supportive help mate roles to prioritize their female partners’ leadership — in all aspects of a committed woman-led relationship.
It is time rethink relationships. I desire to become nothing less than a pleasing and passive “male wife” — serving and submitting to feminine authority — in an intentional and transparent matriarchal-oriented relationship; becoming an attentive, obedient, dutiful domestic who handles many, if not all, of the home-based responsibilities so I can best complement and please my partner and female superior. Times have changed and for select progressive couples, for the better — offering strong assertive women new relationship options. Some women simply prefer to be in charge without compromises; they do not wish to be questioned, challenged or disobeyed by the men privileged to be in their company. They desire able-bodied male partners who are ego-reduced along with being physically and mentally equipped to take direction and to perform to their partner’s expectations from cleaning to cunnilingus. I wish to take my partner’s name, to dress and present myself in a way that pleases her; openly referred to as “my wife” to others — always humble and deferential in the company of women, a point of pride for my lover and leader. My love language is service and submission and I desire to be nothing less than to be the charming, chivalrous and chastised man my dominant desires me to be. To be proud in my private submission and confident in my public deference. Women leading men from boardroom to bedroom: the time has come.
