It’s simple: I like taking direction from women. For me — and my submissive brethren — women in charge not only makes sense; it is the natural order. Feminine leadership — through the imposition of rules, boundaries and restrictions — provides structure to guide men socially, sexually and domestically in devoted service to their female superiors. Offering selfless subservience to women has long defined my place and purpose as an attentive, respectful and eager-to-please submissive male. So how does my obedience manifest itself? For that, I need to know her rules and requirements for service: from cooking to cleaning to cunnilingus. Through transparency and open dialog, she informs me of her preferences so I can strive to become her ideal submissive, servant and adoring male wife. Knowing I have pleased my dominant with exemplary service and submission is its own reward and then some.
Here are some female-directed, male obedience ground rules to establish a framework for a life of obedience in a successful, friction-free femdom relationship/marriage:
- Dedicate your life to my happiness and give me your uncompromising devotion.
- Put my pleasure, my needs and my wishes before your own and never grumble or moan about it.
- Obey my rules willingly and obey my commands immediately. Treat my suggestions as orders.
- Never argue with me. Give in to me in all things. Submit to my will and to my authority.
- Devote yourself to serving me, both in and out of the bedroom.
- All chores that need to be done at home are your job unless I decide otherwise.
- Ask for my approval before doing anything, going anywhere or spending anything.
- Listen to me attentively when I speak to you.
- Confess all your transgressions to me and never, never lie to me.
- Request punishment when you deserve it and willingly submit to all punishments I apply.
